Using metaphor in communication, whether this be face to face or broadcast, is a powerful way to ensure rapid and effective delivery of your messages. It is rather like navigating a journey in a ship using the latest radar and satellite navigation and high horsepower engines compared to setting sail in an old schooner.
Metaphor is essentially where one thing is expressed in terms of another, whereby this bringing together throws new light on the character of what is being described. Metaphor implies comparison. Rather like the comparison that I have just used in the previous paragraph.
The meaning of the story or metaphor is often not in the specific events that make up its content but rather in the underlying patterns or principles it conveys. Thus the content of metaphors are frequently symbolic rather than literal. Because of this stories and storytelling is often a more effective tool for stimulating and supporting change.
Telling a story through metaphor is a way of distracting the conscious mind whilst activating the unconscious mind to search for meaning, relationships, patterns, similarities (with self and ongoing experiences) and resources. Therefore communicating with metaphor is an excellent way of offering new concepts, ideas and behaviours, freeing hidden resources and facilitating change.
Metaphors are an indirect form of communication implying comparison, it allows a ‘carrying over’ of meaning from the story that the teller is presenting to into the reality of the listener. So the tale takes on a personal meaning. Metaphors can often bypass conscious resistance and set up a deeper level of communication.
To create useful metaphors in a business context (perhaps to help facilitate change or resolve conflict) to achieve a specific outcome and move toward resolving a problem, the relationships between the elements in the story need to reflect the relationship between the elements found in the problem. A good metaphor, like a good story or film plot, must create expectation and satisfy it in some way consistent with the style of the composition.
The present state and the desired state or outcome are understood and set clearly. And then a context is chosen for the metaphor that will interest the audience but replace all the elements of the problem with different elements, whilst holding the relationships the same. Then you will plot a story that has the same overall ‘form’ of the present state in the beginning but leads through to a connecting strategy to the desired outcome.
Of course metaphors can be rich in all the representational systems to satisfy different thinking patterns. They are auditory, as they are told and propagated throughout the organisation. Use of the right emotive language can make them connect to feelings and of course they can be made highly visual through the use of art, drawing with coloured pens and even photography or video.
Have a go at this short exercise designed to help you explore the metaphors you live by:
- Recall a story, fairy tale or even a dream from your early childhood that was meaningful for you at the time. Write a short summary (6-8 sentences).
- Recall a story, fairy tale or even a dream from your recent adolescence that was meaningful for you at the time. Write a short summary (6-8 sentences).
- Ask yourself:
- Who did you identify with in the story? Has it changed?
- What does it reflect about your beliefs, values or model of the world?
- What does it indicate about how you’ve changed? and about how you are the same?
If you liked this article why not let me know: sue@changeworkscom.co.uk
Here’s a couple of good books:
The Magic of Metaphor: 77 Stories for Teachers, Trainers and Thinkers, by Nick Owen
Metaphors we Live By, by G Lakoff
The Power of Metaphor: Storytelling and Guided Journeys for Teachers, Trainers and Therapists, Michael Berman and David Brown
Or visit our website to find out more about how we help organisations to communicate better: www.changeworkscom.co.uk
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